Why people cheat?

The essence of many infidelities is not in sex, but in the desire to feel special…

The topic of infidelity one of the most difficult!
Infidelity – is one story that all people live in different ways.

Why people cheat?

Here are some of the reasons:

• Lack of intimacy in the couple is one of the common one!
• Poor communication.
• We are looking for our own self part we imagine and wanna be but can’t realise in current relationships. ⠀
• Your partner doesn’t wanna have sex with you anymore or not so often like you would like to… or, you wanna be kinky and express your sexuality curtain way but you partner is completely closed off to this.

You probably will be struggling, feeling unhappy and earlier or later you’ll find a way to let go yourself….  and as a result you’ll find yourself cheating… ⠀

Self-esteem, luck of love, anger, variety, especially with today’s technologies being so easy to engage in communication with third party outside your relationships without leaving the home… etc.

Well… every couple has issues but the thing is how they able to deal with that. Most of the problems in relationships start from the luck of communication among the partners.

People don’t know how express their desires, emotions and feelings one to another…. It’s a major issue!

As a result of it intimacy struggles what leads to sexual dysfunctions and broken relationships.

But if to look deeper into the root of the problem we might see that one of the partners can suffer from INTIMACY ANOREXIA. It’s an addiction!!!

He/she avoids intimacy, finds various reasons do not spend time with the partner, stays busy all the time for the partner (spouse), instead spends time with friends, neighbors, lover or prostitutes …. Doesn’t share the feelings, emotions, acting out.

“Anorexics” don’t wanna give themselves to others. They create illusional world where they can live safe.

Withholding of emotional, spiritual and sexual intimacy from the partner is – an INTIMACY ANOREXIA.

The cause of such behavior may be various psychological traumas, abuse and problems with attachment.

The partner of an intimate Anorexic may not understand what is happening, blaming her/himself for everything and suffering…

Intimacy and long term relationship come together. If you have a good and satisfying intimate relationships with you partner it makes your relationship more solid and healthy! You will able to keep you intimacy, sex life and create stronger attachment as a result, you feel safe and happy in your relationship …

Don‘t ignore your relationship! Time to time review the terms and agreement of your current  relationship!

Simply don‘t ignore each others needs!

Be lovers to each other!